To understand is to have compassion on the multitudes,

to hate sin but not the sinner.
It is to know weakness, yet rise above it,
to see it in others, yet not condemn,
but uplift those hearts and encourage
them to go on to better things.

Dude, understand.
I want to go, but I've to go to church. I can't just not go to hang or play.
I have commitment man. It's not just "that simple".
You wouldn't want me at your bday party feeling bad right?